now, i know us hardcore AO players know absolutly nothing about girls...but, maybe the diamond in the rough could help me
why is it that girls want to be treated like crap?
i dont understand.
i started "dating" this girl and thought i was doing everything right. i didn't visit her every day, i told her to go out and have a good time with her friends. i say to her "flirt with other guys if that makes you happy"...
she goes to a party, i dont have to go. i keep my distance and let her enjoy herself. i invited her to a concert, make her feel comfortable...she says that she trusts me. i never pull the "get her drunk" routine that other guys to.
but everyone is like "lay off her man, you're getting too tight"...
since when is being generous, understanding toward woman's feelings and making her feel secure ever TIGHT! isn't that what a girl wants? a guy that understands her and is generous with her...almost puts her on a pedisal
i get it from everyone. i am a serious guy, especially when it comes to relationships. but, when i am a father i hope my daughters being guys home like me. honestly...
so, i am in a pickle. i don't want to change, but it seems like the last two girls i met don't like to be treated right. a male friend of her's said to me tonight "i used to treat girls like you did, but it doesnt work. you have to treat her like garbage because it's the only thing they know. they want a challenge." i could see it because my brother treats girls like garbage and he's the one getting lucky. but, i will never want to treat woman like that. it's disgusting what they do. i hope it's not true or else i'm really going to have a tough time trying to get things back together again
i guess the nice guy finishes last, but i'm tired of running. if anyone, male or female has anything to add to the subject, please do
john